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December 2005
Psychologists tell how
to keep New Year’s resolutions
If you’ve failed at
keeping your New Year’s resolutions in the past, research
suggests that it may have to do with the goals you’ve
chosen and how you implement change, reports the January issue
of the Harvard Health Letter.
The newsletter suggests:
1. Don’t have too many
goals.
2. Be specific. Don’t
set goals that are too vague, such as being a better spouse.
3. Keep goals realistic.
4. Match your own interests
and values, rather than those that reflect outside pressures
or expectations. In other words, you’re more likely
to keep a resolution if the motivation is coming from you,
not someone else.
5. Come up with a practical
strategy for achieving your goals.
6. Tie the desired behaviors
to common events or to habits you already have, so the new
behavior becomes more or less automatic.
7. Assess your tendency toward
perfectionism. Researchers report that subjects with perfectionist
tendencies that are integral to their personalities fare well
with step-by-step plans for pursuing a goal. But the practical
steps backfired for perfectionism driven by a need to reach
expectations set by others.
The bottom line: Pick your
resolution carefully and back it up with concrete strategies
about how to achieve it.
Source: Harvard Health
Letter www.health.harvard.edu/health.
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